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Why no mention that unhappiness (and actual depression and anxiety) are actually higher among young people who align with liberal politics?

Are these left-leaning kids simply more sensitive and aware? Or have they been conditioned by a world view that inflates catastrophism and considers dysfunctional victimhood a virtue? And more broadly, how much of the unhappy factor among all young people (despite living in the best times ever) is the result of deliberate conditioning?

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I’m not one of the researchers who argues that teenagers aren't unhappier today. But I am for ending our denial as to why and facing the realities they face, as Dr. Twenge’s latest substack post suggests.

It doesn’t matter what grownups tell surveys about how “happy” we are. The facts across the Western world vigorously show the grownup crisis is far worse – and a major cause of – teenagers’ understandable unhappiness. It’s long past time we stopped denying this.

For example, from 2010 to 2021, Americans ages 30-59 (the ages of parents, relatives, household adults, teachers, coaches, etc.) suffered a skyrocketing epidemic of 800,000 suicides and fatal overdoses, plus 13 million ER self-harm and poisoning cases (nearly all o.d.’s) – up 180% in 11 years, CDC figures show.

That’s equal to the entire middle-aged populations of Illinois, Pennsylvania, and Michigan suffering serious drug casualties during the same decade teens say they got more depressed and anxious.

We didn’t like that reality millions of teens live with, so we ignored it and pretend the grownups are just fine. We don’t even ask teens if grownups’ soaring self-destruction makes them more depressed.

The 2021 CDC survey showed that while teens who are online report more depression, they also report less self-harm, fewer attempted suicides, and fewer major risks. We like the “more depression” finding and endlessly highlight it. We didn’t like the “less self-harm,” “fewer suicide attempts,” and “fewer risks,” so we ignored those answers.

That same CDC survey associated violent and/or emotional abuse by parents and household adults with vastly more teenage (especially girls’ and LBGTQs’) depression, suicide attempts, self-harm, and other major risks than associated with any other factor, including screen time. We didn’t like teens’ answers on the abuse issue, so we ignored them.

Depressed teen girls, in particular, report being online more, and also being abused by parents/adults more. Analysis decisively shows that being parentally-abused is hugely more important. We didn’t like what girls said. So, we ignored the abuse result and just blame being online.

Teens are 3.5 times more likely to be abused by parents and grownups than online or at school. We didn’t like that answer, so we ignored it. Teens abused by parents at home are also much more likely to be cyberbullied and bullied at school. We didn’t like that connection, so we ignored it and just blamed bullying on peers.

The Pew Research survey found teens several times more likely to rate their personal online experiences as positive, inclusive, connective, and helpful in dealing with “tough times,” rather than negative. We didn’t like that result, so we ignored it.

Large majorities of teens also told Pew that social media is neither good nor bad. Repeated reviews of survey and experimental studies confirmed that social media are associated with very low and contradictory effects on teens. We didn’t like those results, so we dismissed them.

It’s inconvenient and perhaps embarrassing to admit that teen girls have extraordinarily low suicide and overdose rates compared to us mature grownup women and (especially) men. So, we ignore that reality.

Instead of asking better questions and paying attention to what teens say, we pick and choose only those time periods, measures, and risk factors that we grownups find comfortable to face. Teenagers in real-life homes and communities enjoy no such pick-and-choose luxury.

If we truly want to understand young people’s unhappiness – and I’m not sure we do – then let’s start asking the right questions and taking teens’ answers seriously. It would be a refreshing change.

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