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Kelly Williams's avatar

I had a meeting with my local school district to advocate for no-phone-bell-to-bell and I was amazed at how the admins shifted blame to parents saying “well don’t give your kids a phone.” While I agree with that it’s a simplified answer that isn’t helpful when classrooms use QR codes and kids are rewarded for having a smartphone by gaining popularity among classmates. Interesting to see this is a sort of playbook.

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Brian Villanueva's avatar

But... but... Freedom! Liberty! Parents' Rights!

Social media regulation (and other behavioral restrictions) always runs into the brick wall of John Stuart Mill's maximal individual autonomy: "my rights only stop at your nose". Mill never wrote those exact words, but the idea is the cornerstone of modern liberal philosophy and has been the underlying theology of America for at least 100 years.

Take the tobacco regulation example used in this article. People knew that tobacco was bad for you for decades, but smoking bans never went anywhere. Why? Because smokers have a inalienable right to choose to poison their own lungs. That's Mill's Harm Principle ("the only legitimate use of coercion is to prevent physical harm to others") in action. Only when activists started pushing "secondhand smoke kills" did anti-smoking laws take off -- you can't regulate human freedom in any way unless it hurts other people.

Social media is bad: for kids, for teens, for adults, for pretty much everyone. But until we demonstrate that John's use of social media is bad for Mary, we will always run up against the "but I have a right" argument from both of them.

Of course, we could exorcise the ghost of John Stuart Mill from our society and enthrone something other than "maximal individual autonomy" as our highest good. Left-wing wokeness (ala Kendi) is an attempt to do that as is Right-wing postliberalism (ala Deneen). However, that's a long-term undertaking. In the meantime, take a lesson from the tobacco people and figure out how to talk about "secondhand Instagram".

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