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Brigid LaSage's avatar

What about online pornography?? I can't understand why porn isn't discussed along with the other variables of internet use. Are we too puritanical? Boys are becoming addicted to it (At what ages? Since when? Where is that data?) and girls are aware and exposed to it too. Billie Ellish has spoken about the detrimental effects of this which I'm sure are widespread. Nobody wants to be a spoilsport I guess? Or we want to pretend the seamy side of human sexuality doesn't exist? I'm not for banning porn for adults, but any discussion of teen mental health is missing a crucial factor if porn use is delicately erased from the conversation.

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Maureen Mehlman's avatar

I am no scholar but have a personal interest in much of what your study reveals. I had a late life child and according to your analysis as well as other comments, there are perhaps a myriad of factors that are/have driven my severely ADHD/Asperger’s’ daughter to become very addicted to TIKTOK. Like most teens(not sure what tag aka gen z or post millennial) born after 2000, she has grown up in an online world. I don’t think the last two years of high school having been all and then partly distance-learning were helpful either. She discusses her “conditions” as if they are the only lens through which she views herself and her relationships. I remain concerned that her excessive viewing of social media is not mentally or physically healthy. I believe it to reinforce the gender identity crisis now plaguing a large number of especially teen girls. It’s become another way to fit-in in our evermore sick world. I think banning TIKTOK especially might be good for teens and kids in general.

Online friends are no replacement for FTF relationships.

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